Its 3: 30 am, I tried sleeping but no luck. I just can’t stop thinking. So many thoughts are going on in my head right now. I can’t
believe this year has passed by so quickly, now that I look back, so much has changed including me.
The most important thing I’m learning is to say No and to stand up for myself. Now you might think NO? What does that mean? Well I was the kind of person that if someone asked for something and even thought I couldn’t do it I used to say yes. I mean it was just impossible for me to say no and because of that I got in trouble at times. So it’s really important to learn
when to say Yes and No.
I have been bullied in the past but most of the time I got bullied because I didn’t stand up for myself. At times few of my friends used to say slightly hurtful things and I just couldn’t ask them to stop instead I laughed about it with them and later on when I thought about it, I felt really bad.

Dress : Femella (Myntra), Necklace : Dorothy Perkins (Gifted), Bangle : Blurr, Clutch : Accessorize, Ring : Thrifted, Sandal : Tresmode, On my Nails : Maybelline Color show Nail paint in Porcelain party, On my lips : Revlon Just Bitten in Crush.



Lately I’ve been spending some time alone and that got me thinking about the past and about what I could’ve done differently , the Present and what all I am doing currently and the future what all I need to do and change . I have been reading more, getting work done (Yup, did you notice all the frequent blog post?), Focusing on my career. I’m really proud of the person
I see every day in the mirror and I have no regrets. I am growing into a strong confident and independent woman. I have learned to accept criticism, be fearless, and most importantly believe. I believe in myself.
Before this year ends I want to take time and thank each and every one of you who constantly have been supporting me, I appreciate the effort you take to comment and every comment that I read gives me a boost of
happiness and the will to do better. Thank you so much.

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you look stunning in black

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Thank you Shikha 🙂

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Omg..omg..u look stunning honey…seems dress designed for u only…i became a fan of you

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Yay ! So glad you liked it love.. Muuahhh 😀

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Shanaya!!! you look gorgeous dear.<3 <3
xoxo

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Muuahh.. Thank you love <3

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You look stunning honey 🙂

It is about time i also start saying no more often! it is a big problem!

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Haahaahaa your a sweet heart.. 😀

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you look beautiful and its great that you are standing up for yourself…always remember that others treat us the way we treat ourselves 🙂

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Thank you Jasmine.. Will keep that in mind 🙂

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Loved the outfit, but loved your words even more!

xoxo
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Aww.. So glad to read your comment after a long time.. Thx for stopping by.. 🙂

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That dress looks great on you, Shanaya <3 I have had that issue with being unable to say no for a very long time, I'm glad you could overcome it, it was very difficult for me as well. Received the Vivel gift Hamper, thanks a bunch. 🙂 Heartiest new year wishes.

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Yay.. So happy you received it 😀 Thank you doll 😀 <3

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Awesome ! Stunner !!

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Muuahhh.. Thank you Bhumika 😀

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This dress is simply made for you Shanaya! Its beautiful!
I've seen that picture everywhere, on facebook, insta, and here, and i still feel like commenting!
You are so so beautiful Shanaya!
Love this post!
I adore that ring!
The first picture is the best! You look serene! :))

Love your thoughts on life as well 🙂

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Thank you for everything Chandni, You have no idea how happy you comments make me.. It really means a lot.. Thank you for all your support love… <3

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You're most welcome O:)
Loving your blog! Waiting for your upcoming posts 😀
Lots of lovee :*

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u look so good. love ur necklace and ring

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Thanks a ton Meghana 😀

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You look stunning !!
I have seen that dress so many times online but it did not appeal me. But on you its looks outstanding !!
Keep Going 😀 have a great year.
Love
Mukta
http://www.theitgirl.in

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Oh i love this dress…so classic, simple n yet so stunning..
ur looking lovely 🙂

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You look lovely!

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Shanaya you are one pretty lady! 😀 Muaaaahhhh! ^____^

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Wow!! you look so glam and loved the accessories <3

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You look stunning Shanaya. I have the same habit of not being able to say NO. I am also in my learning phase to get over it 🙂

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I loved the write up…inspired me 🙂 Love the ring…

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